Hello mates, I have a serious problem. Me and my Girlfriend have sex almost 3-4 times a week. Its great and I can give her orgasm with my tongue and fingers, but the problem is that I can not control my orgasm and I can only last for like 2 mins. I have tried different methods, I bought a guide from internet, I have used condoms with some shiit that prevent ejaculation but it dit not help. I have used a fleshlight and everything and I think Im set to have an orgasmw within max 5 mins.
I have tried to jizz before the sex but the second time I enter the instance I get the same effect and I ejaculate.
Please what can I do? is there something I can do, I have tried to train my PC-muscel but that doesnt either help me.
Or is it impossible for me to last for like 15 mins? I know that many of the guys are having this problem.
Im getting really depressed by this and Im afraid that my gf will leave me, becasue we dont even get swetty when having sex.
Please help me, I beg you, this is not a troll, Im having serious problems, I have talked with doctors and they say that I have to make the start stop teqnique, has anybody had this problem? and how did you solve it.
Regards Answer1234.
(Should I post this in serious chat or Chitchat?) dont want to receive 1 more warning
Well, you know, the start - stop method is perfectly viable. Just go at it for two-three minutes, please her for 1 minute some other way and then continue to go at it. Do this as much as you like.
You have to train the PC muscle for weeks and weeks before you'll notice any difference. Took me 2-3 months before I was able to hold back the first orgasm.
#1299334 by unknown[386359] at 2010-06-22 13:04:53 (3 years ago) - [Report]
First off, excuse me while I laugh at you.
Now then. I sure wish I had your problem, but for me its the extreme opposite. All I can say is that your problem should go away as you get older, the majority of men gain more self control as they age. If you need a permanent solution, try getting married. I assure you that your orgasms will be few an far between.
I think this is definitely Serious Chat material, PM a mod to move it.
And that is exactly why this should be discarded as a troll post. If Answer1234 really needed help he would have listened to his doctor, and if he REALLY cared enough about this issue it would have gone to Serious Chat and not end up here.
But this thread might prove valuable to people so why not share some information or experiences?
I have recieved a warning for posting a serious post in serious chat, so I dont want to get banned, why should I risk my account? thats why I edited in the last sentence, about where I should post it
Now then. I sure wish I had your problem, but for me its the extreme opposite. All I can say is that your problem should go away as you get older, the majority of men gain more self control as they age. If you need a permanent solution, try getting married. I assure you that your orgasms will be few an far between.
This thread made me smile hugely Not cause of the threadstarter, but the brutal honesty that comes out later here. Its nice tho, i love it, shows we are all humans <3
But to the point, as ppl said earlier, when you get closer to 30 years, you'll notice that you have more "control". But hey, if you cum in 2 min, just rest for 10, and have another session, i doubt she will say no
#1299359 by Viiksne (TB's SC2 Wizard) at 2010-06-22 14:20:11 (3 years ago) - [Report]
I have been waiting for Answer1234 to return and give us yet another great topic about genuine problems
Can answer1234 get he's own special avatar and title?:p
Oh and fo the topic, do llike salatthumb said, should do the trick!
#1299435 by unknown[356111] at 2010-06-22 17:36:26 (3 years ago) - [Report]
i would suggest... jerk alot in the shower and use lube get used to the sensitivity and the way u think during sex/jerking off can change how fast u cum, just take it easy try like for example
have sex and add this to it will add some time and just keep progressing
2-3 mins of blow job
2 mins of doggy style
1-1.3mins of blow job or u can go down on her
2 or so mins on another position
try and think of something weak that will get ur mind of cumming but at the same time not lose the boner
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Not cause of the threadstarter, but the brutal honesty that comes out later here. Its nice tho, i love it, shows we are all humans <3
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